Thursday, April 23, 2009

Where There's a Will

Okay,
It's Thursday. I am sunburnt. yep. TOTALLY sunburnt from Monday afternoon, when I went outside with the kidlets and wrote in my paper journal on the deck. I was out for about an hour, but came in, SUNBURNT!!! Wow.

Then. Today I was up and got to shovel my driveway. Sunburnt. Shovelling snow.

Welcome to Calgary.
Then, the bus didn't come. So, seeing as how there were too many kids for me to safely transport the school-aged ones to school by myself, they have a snow-day. AND, they have the day off tomorrow for parent-teacher interviews, so it's kinda a REALLY long weekend.

On other, non-related news, I am so unbloggified lately as if you didn't notice. Slacker over here is having a hard time finding fodder to share. Not that I don't have THINGS worth blogging about, but it's nothing anyone else really finds that entertaining. That, and I found out recently that Will's exwife-to-be also reads my blog. Um, wierd, but whatever. Apparently she tried to use it as ammunition to hurt him, which only works if she actually thinks that what I write in the blog is the whole story. She's not very friendly to me, but whatever. I wrote her another post the other day-- one similar to the one I wrote for EF, but it was TOTALLY full of 'blue air", and have decided just to keep it in my back pocket for another day. Stay tuned for it, I may just air it eventually. :P Nonetheless, everyone say Hi to Sarah.

But, I will share a few pics he so awesomely sent me to share with "my peeps" here on the blog. From the past weekend. (no, no swimming pool shots-- THANKGOODNESS!!) (My personal fave-- awww)

And, we're taking polls for what Will's last name should be! He and I sat around laughing this morning at funny last names.
Our favourite was "Spank". HAH!

So, seeing as we missed Word Verification Wednesday yesterday because of my Idon'tfeellikebloggingaboutthegaymissionaryinourward attitude (NOT joking about that last part!), let's play What's Will's Last Name?

27 comments:

Anonymous said...
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Rach and Tay Campbell said...

I love that huggy picture Deb!

people will never know the whole story. good for you for airing what you decide to air and leaving the rest to the imagination. so that people who ASSUME the rest of the story can proceed to try and offend you. ha ha ha I love it. im glad your happy
and you HAVE to come to my bachlerette!!
.x.x.

HI SARAH!

Debbi said...

Anon- she's not the mother of the kids.

And how am I "getting involved" in their divorce?!!!! I came into the picture much after their marriage was over.

I erased your message because I don't think it's very cool having her last name on my blog. That doesn't fly with me.

Annelie said...

Debbi, you guys look absolutely awesome together! I see why you love the last photo - it is adorable!
You look beautiful and happy!

Have a wonderful weekend!

Clearly, Will's last name should be "Delicious", but "Spank" is also seriously awesome! :)
Good luck on your name quest.

Anonymous said...

I don't know what the post you deleted said but don't fool yourself> marriages aren't over until divorces are final.

Debbie Jo said...

I love that photo of you and Will...it looked so cute and relaxing!

Will's last name: McSpank!

Sin said...

Dear Anon,

As someone who knows ALL the parties involved, it is unfair of you to presume that Debbi is involved with Will and Sarah's divorce. The only people involved with that are their bishop, Will and all of Sarah's split personalities. AND thankfully now a judge.

Unknown said...

i totally agree with Debbie Jo...i love to use the "Mc" prefix anytime possible.

and i loathe anonymous posters.

if you can't stand behind what you say, shut your pie hole.

or just stick your head in the sand like i do for most confrontational circumstance.

or get drunk.

or take an ativan.

love ya Debbi...you look happy.

word verification: almis

definition: "i'll miss" ya once, but look out the next time!


hahahahahahaha...good thing i make myself laugh.

Grand Pooba said...

word verification: nagamal

Definition: Nagging anonymous commenters

Debbi said...

HAHAHAHA!
You last four slay me. HAHAHAH!!!

B Willy said...

Maybe I should let u know my middle name... ingto....lol
Will ingto Spank or Will ingto loveya4eva or
Will ingto doanythingUwant eitherway I "Will" will be here for a long long time...Love ya4eva

genkibond said...

http://sendables.jibjab.com/view/JyUODJkRtOQq6B1L

look this up, i made it as a little tribute.
since you are using fake names, troy and gabriella are just as good i think

Debbi said...

LMBO!!! GENKI, that was friggen hilarious! Thanks for making that, you made me laugh so hard!!

genkibond said...

I'm all about the love, disney-style.

Hailey said...

This was a great post and had me reading it twice just to chuckle again!

It's awesome to see how great you are (both) doing and the happiness that just bursts out! I'm beaming for you!

Hailey said...

oh and I vote actually for the grey's twist of *McSpanky* :D

M said...

My Vote is so for McSpanky!!

Kristi said...

Gay missionary! That's what I got out of the post this time! YeeeeHAWWW welcome to Cowtown!
Word verification: Shiliten--a mormon sitting on a toilet feeling bad for swearing

Becka. said...

Hey babe.

Miss ya but glad you look (and are) so happy. You guys look great and I KNOW he's a great guy, based on years and years of knowing him, so that always makes me feel better for my friends!

I vote for McSpanky. All the way.

Anon's obviously don't understand that marriages can be over LONG beofre the courts get around to signing the papers.

Loves. And you DO have to come to the bach party.

Michelle said...

Hi Sarah!! You should comment if you are going to read. Its the polite thing to do.

I think Will Ingto Spank is a fabulous name. Kinda kinky though ;)

Anonymous said...

Dear Sin;

You annoy me. You seem to think that you are "all knowing" of Debbi and perhaps you don't notice but you often speak for her. Yes, you may be a good friend of hers but don't presume to think that you are above everyone else or have the 'inside scoop' when in fact your perspective is simply - just yours.

Nice pics Debbi - they will be even nicer once he is officially divorced.

Debbi said...

Anon-
I don't see where Sin spoke for me.
Nonetheless, she knows more than anyone else. She HAS the inside scoop, actually.

It will be PERFECT, though, you're right, once he's officially divorced. Couldn't happen fast enough.

Anonymous said...

PS Sin,

I am Anon #3 - not the other one you originally blasted.

Unknown said...

omg the drama.

but i can't help coming back to watch it...it's like a traffic accident.

speaking as someone who is divorced, my marriage was over YEARS before i finally garnered the courage to make myself happy.

and i wish my ex-husband all the happiness that he can hold.

divorce is an emotional roller coaster. and honestly if someone is sifting through the mountains of paperwork that is necessary in the dissolution of a marriage...yeah, they pretty much mean to go the whole nine yards.

why do people have to be mean? seriously, stop placing hate and blame on the third party. i'm sure will's shoulders are big enough to bear the judgment...only cowards hide behind anonymity, soldier the fuck up.

i just realized i'm kind of anonymous also, so now i hold the title of hypocrite too.

i am such a loser.

fuckin' eh. thanks anonymous...now i hang my head in shame for you pointing out that i'm just like you.

andy

p.s. debbi, i'm sorry for the swear words...got a little riled up. plus i think they make my point more pronounced.

EmmaP said...

oh wow! where to even begin...

1- gay missionary? tee hee... cant wait to hear this story.

2- wow! and I thought I created ruckuses on Facebook!

3- Will McDreamy

4- I don't know your customs in Canada or anything like that, cuz I know in some countries they view "inactive marriages" (legal separation) the same as divorce. And i would never presume to judge anyone or their standards. I think each person has to do what they feel ios best for them. Then after that, it is between them and God. I know that my bish told me, "you are married, until you are no longer married - legally." ergo, i did not do any dating until after my divorce was final. Even though i was "divorced in my heart" looooong before that.

5- anonymous commenters... hmm.. i have some feelings about that too. I think that all of us are entitled to our own opinions. But would you sit in a discussion group and where a bag over your head before commenting? no. you either "cowboy up" and speak your mind, or sit quiet. So, i say "cowboy up" when you comment. OF course, the blog "owner" also has the right to delete anything she sees fit.

6- i am sorry you are feeling un-bloggified lately. but it's ok to take a bloggy break. get on with your life, find your "place" in which you feel peace, then the blogging will find it's place. IT may mean you only blog once in a while...but your true bloggy fans will not forsake you! :)

7- i LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE LOVE the pics! you two are freakin cute!!!

Megan said...

Great pics!!! You look very happy! =)

Since I'm not very creative coming up with names, the WF is 'Aphtive'. We'll make that my guess for his last name. ;0P

Hailey said...

Interestingly, I thought I'd point out....while there are certain expectations as far as being married and getting divorced goes - I know someone whose bishop felt the need to fast on her behalf while she was in the process of being divorced, as to whether or not dating her now husband would be an appropriate move (after initially saying no based on the guidelines, etc)....After fasting and much prayer he felt like for the two of them (for whatever reason) their relationship could progress. They dated a year before her divorce was final (it was loooong and took 2 years in total) and were married shortly after....

So while we may think it's cut and dry - we really can't be the ones to say the way it should be for anyone else....as easy as it may be sometimes.

What's amazing to me is it's so clear from this blog that Debbi (talking about you like you aren't here. lol) considers everything....thinks it through...works it out....goes through the motions...and wants to do what's right and best by all involved. She has too much invested with her kids and Chris to act impulsively in situations like this. I can't see where anyone can find fault in her choices, not that it's our job to do so.

And another thing....there are THREE anon posters??? Seriously - that's just lame! *The Paper Bag Princess* hehe

oo and I WIN I WIN for McSpanky :D

Love ya Debbi